I lean toward the role of a dominant male but not a traditional "dom." more as an Alpha male. I use BDSM, not as a power play to control a woman, but as a way to enhance eroticism. I, personally, don't enjoy inflicting  or receiving extreme pain, I just enjoy the dominance. I have always done a little switch (Meaning also being submissive) so that I would have hands-on knowledge and could accurately get the feel of that role to better help my couples. I found that I really enjoy the submissive side as well. I am continually trying to gain as much knowledge and experience as I can. Translation: I love having sex, generally monogamously, because, in general, NSA hookup partners don't seem to be down with 8-hour kinky tantric sex sessions. LOL. I know a lot about almost everything you can do with lite BDSM and kink, and I play with and teach it to be used in a tantric-based setting. Playing in a tantric environment slows things down and keeps couples mindful of each other's sexual needs and desires, raising the level of eroticism, as well as increasing their trust for each other. All this makes for much hotter sex and has the bonus of strengthening their bond outside the bedroom as well.

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My personal favorite? Honestly, I like everything, but it really depends on what seems to get my partner the hottest. My style with a partner is a bit different. A traditional dominant generally takes total control of his submissive partner from the start and the submissive experiences only what her dominant partner offers. That's perfect for most subs. I like to play with women that wish to explore different kinks, exploring new and different kinks. We plan our sessions together. Eventually, once I've learned my partner well, I plan the scenes. This way our scenes will always incorporate things that make my partner explode, while introducing new kinks and pushing limits.

Of course, I really love to edge or surf endlessly, but far and away my absolute favorite sexual activity is performing oral sex, rimming, and perineum stimulation that initiate those whole body organs with my head tightly squeezed between her thighs.  I have a tremendous toy chest as well. As far as pain, I keep the  level in the erotic zone, not in the painful zone, if that makes sense. Delivering painful pain or leaving marks just doesn't excite me, it kills my high. I find denial of pleasure is a much more effective tool in obedience training, don't get it twisted though, I keep a riding crop nearby for any over-the-top outbursts that need  immediate attention.

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I have worked at several dungeons around the country. I have over 3 years teaching BDSM 101 as a hands on eroticism instructor. Teaching people toy safety and experimenting with “newbie ladies” and couples to find out what they do and do not like. I can very quickly find a woman’s pleasure spots and would absolutely love to help you find yours. 

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At 13 years old, I was shipped off to work at a tourist destination. There I found that I absolutely LOVE, to entertain crowds and that I was really good at it. I love to entertain for  Bachelorette parties, divorce parties, hysterectomy parties, girls Night Out parties, toy instruction parties or whatever you can think of. I don't charge anything they're just so much fun to participate in. Contact me if you would like some ideas for a party.

 

I am a professional businessman by day (clean-cut, suit & tie wearing man) and a freaky freak by night. I own several businesses that do well enough to put gas in the car and food on the table. I do not play with women and share my knowledge for a price, EVER. I will state over and over that I love to share my knowledge and help make women and couples happy but I will NOT come out to have sex. That's just my thing, I am a 1 woman man and I REALLY mean it.

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For a list of my toys, check out the "Fun Stuff" page

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