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Getting kinky isn't complicated at all, but it may seem that way when you don't know where to begin. What to buy,  what to wear, how long should it last, does it hurt? All legitimate questions. Together we're going to set up a simple, custom environment, for the 2 of you  to get you completely comfortable and give you some general boundaries. You'll get more detailed as you're playing and deciding what you like best.
 
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What I don't do:
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     I'm not getting into psychoanalysis or discussions about your Mom leaving you at the mall, how you           were last picked for dodgeball or anything other than your sexual hot buttons. Hey, I do this for free;         what do you expect? LOL
 
What I do:
  

  1. Review a sex questionnaire you have both completed separately. Relax, if you're not comfy answering a question or you don't think it's relevant, just skip it. Let me know if there is anything you are already curious about and that's where we'll start.

  2. Give you general information about different kinks until we narrow it down to one you're most interested in.

  3. Help you set up a plan for safety, boundaries and a flexible structure so you are comfortable playing but can easily improvise.

  4. I'll always be here for any questions you have about problems, new kinks, most effective toy use, direct you to good sources for more information and answer any concerns you have.​

  5. The greatest reward you can give me is letting me know how much you love it in general, the details are secrets that can shatter relationships, so keep them safe between yourselves.

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Contact me for more information.
 
         Miles@MilesLong.org

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